I'm Not Selfish, Am I?

Selfishness is one of those things we're constantly surrounded by in our culture. People who are always trying to get ahead and often at the expense of others around them. Look at Webster's definition of selfish, "Seeking or concentrating on one's own advantage, pleasure or well-being without regard for others." Now compare it to selfless, "Having no concern for self." Here are two definitions that couldn't be more opposite. So how do you view others? Are they simply there to build your kingdom, dreams or serve you? Or are they there for you to see their dreams and vision come to pass and for you to serve them? We have no greater example of selflessness than Jesus. Matthew 20:28 tells us, "For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many." We also have the example of Paul, who did not use others to promote his agenda, plans or dreams, but equipped others to fulfill their own calling and dreams. Today we will all be around people. Will you serve them or will you expect them to serve you? What will you do to see their dreams, hopes and calling come to pass? Opportunities to help others get ahead abound all around us. Don't use others for your selfish purposes, but help others to thrive and accomplish what God has for them :)