Be An Example at Playing Second Fiddle

Everyone has relationships and there are qualities that make a relationships work. You may even have a few come to mind. But to me, one of the most vital qualities is found in Romans 12:10 which says, "Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another." This isn't just something that's to be known, but rather done. Perhaps that's why it begins with the word "Be." This can only be done if humility is present. Today I want to emphasize the giving of preference to one another. In a world that's full of envy, competitiveness, jealousy and striving, this verse is a breath of fresh air. Can you imagine what would happen in all relationships if this was done? In fact, the meaning of this is pretty amazing. Giving preference means, “going before, leading and setting the example for others to follow.” It  actually implies a striving to excel in this area out of mutual honor and respect for one another. It essentially means taking second fiddle because of your love for your friends and preferring them before yourself. Any relationship with this quality in the mix will become an even stronger relationship :)